This dream dictionary uses a bank of hundreds of real dreams to show how dream symbols translate into real life thoughts and feelings.
PAIN IN DREAMS : Most dreams represent recent thoughts especially from the
day before as we think over feelings and events which have
just occurred. Your dreams that night will represent how our
minds have made sense of what has just happened. So your
dreams represent your thoughts. Nowadays it is widely
accepted that dreams link to conscious feelings rather than
unconscious feelings. So we will be much more aware of what
our dreams mean. They will represent the conclusions that are
forming in our minds. They will be written in the language of
dream symbolism. Take for instance the following dream.
Most dreams will translate into real feelings - the type of
things that you would write down in a diary or the things
that you would tell a friend. These feelings will pinpoint
your feelings and say exactly why it is that you feel such a
way. How does the process work? Well its made easier in the
case of pain dreams because these are often a purely
emotional symbol. Pain translates into emotional pain. So try
to locate the source of any emotional pain. In the following
case it was easy to spot the trigger in the "pain" dream as
the dreamer was on the point of breaking up with her
boyfriend. The dream is very involved and just mirrors
reality as the dreamer was going through difficult emotions.
Its obvious that pain in the dream refers to. The child's
painful experiences are just an obvious metaphor for the
dreamers emotional pain caused by her relationship.
THE DREAM My boyfriend - Jez - and I are in the dream,
talking about eating something and standing next to a fridge.
Jez reaches into the fridge saying he wants some quiche [I
had just bought a vegetable quiche the day before the dream]
and opens the packet, but then I see that he has been storing
a big piece of pork pie in the same box as my vegetarian
quiche! I go absolutely ballistic, grab and quiche and throw
it at him and storm off. The next thing I know we are at a
school, and I am running away from Jez, very angry, screaming
that I don't want to be with him any more and we are
finished. I run faster and faster, across a school yard and
down a steep concrete ramp, then realise Jez is catching me
up. I keep yelling "SHITHEAD!" at him. Then he's
grabbing my arm, and we bump into Jessica and Tara [two girls
I know from last year at university] and they keep asking me
in their Irish voices, "Are you and Jez going to be
living in the same flat again next year?" and Jez keeps
saying, "Yes, yes we are" and I keep screaming,
"No! We've broken up! You shithead!" at him. I
escape Jez and step into a classroom where I know I have an
English lesson. I sit down in my seat, still fuming, and then
proceed to wet myself, slowly but surely, all over the chair.
Then I realise Im too angry to concentrate in the
lesson so I get up and carefully put on my coat so no one can
tell Ive wet myself, although there is a big puddle of
urine on my chair. I storm out, bumping into the teacher [who
happens to be Miss Hodgson from my secondary school] and she
asks me what I'm doing. By now I'm crying and I push her out
the way saying I have to go. I head to a toilet and go
straight into a cubicle and shut the door. Then I sit on the
loo and take a shit. In the toilet also, as its a
public one in the school, is another girl in the cubicle next
to me. She is crying and standing outside her cubicle is a
woman I recognise as a teacher [possibly from my secondary
school also but I cant remember her name in real life].
The woman seems to be comforting the girl. The girl is upset
for some reason to do with her parents, not because they have
split up but because of some other reason which I cant
remember. The teacher is telling the girl that she went
through the same thing when she was her age, telling her a
long story about the pain she too went through, and is trying
to coax her out and calm
her down. The girl keeps crying and crying, sobbing and
yelping. I finish
my business and come out of the cubicle to wash my hands
(I distinctly remember
without flushing!). As I am washing them, the girl goes
quiet. The woman starts
to get agitated and worried, calling the girls name
and asking is she all
right.
Sometimes with dreams you can see how exact thought processes
are portrayed in sophisticated metaphors. Take the following
dream.
THE DREAM - I was in some type of hospital. At one
point I had to pass this woman. I had to squeeze past her and
in doing so this caused huge pain. I found out that she was
suffering huge pain from cancer. I felt that I should be
sympathetic towards her despite or differences. I 'knew' in
the dream that she was my ex wife or girlfriend. When I
squeezed past her I would be touching her.
If something difficult happens the day before then look for
ways in which that problem could be portrayed. The day before
this dream the dreamer had had just had a real problem with a
friend who had stormed off for virtually no reason. The
dreamer was particularly worrying about the next time they
would meet and how awkward this would now be. The dream was a
metaphor for this exact feeling. The pain which the cancer
sufferer feels represented his friends emotional pain the
next time they would meet. In saying "I had to squeeze past
her and in doing so this caused huge pain" the dream captures
this exact feeling - "My friend is very sensitive about this
and when I next walk past him it will be very difficult". So
real pain in the dream translates into emotional pain and
sensitivity.
Sometimes we can get into a mood in which we feel pain. We
may start to worry that a relationship will soon end. Such is
the case with the next dream.
DREAM - My boyfriend is cheating on me I found
out he was chatting on skype with somebody , I found out
that he was keeping a secret ,and I left feeling so much pain
of being cheated, and I'm pregnant, and he doesn't care if I
leave his best friend humiliated me too, but the rest of them
feel pity on me and didn't do anything, I found myself with
my old friends and they stand next to me ,and we went for a
ride in a bus to go away ,but at the last moment I remember
my ex and I thought of talking to him cos in my dreams he was
mad at me in the past
The night before the dreamer had a conversation with her
boyfriend about another girl. His answers did not make sense
and she became suspicious. So the dream captures the reality
of the dreamers emotions. The dreamer feels that she is being
cheated on.
The next dream is also typical of "pain" dreams. These dreams
simply depict hurt feelings. However, in this case the pain
goes wider. The dreamer described the following emotions at
the time - "I feel I want to die and all around the world
there is only pain and everybody wants to hurt me and I will
never be loved, I will never be a mother, nor a soul mate. I
am so alone and I feel everything all around me... all the
time. I am tired and I wish I didn't feel that if I die, it
would be another failure to my existence no matter where that
is".
THE DREAM I had a dream were I was the observer
and also every character that was being hurt, meaning the
children. I was changing from child to child, mostly girls
and I felt when the gang of boys teenagers were having "fun"
torturing and burning and raping all of us. I felt the blade
of the knife when they were experimenting in taking the
uterus out and just laughing because without anaesthesia the
pain was so horrible you died, and they were laughing, all of
us were in pain, it was 1935; and even teenage girls were on
the gang, they took the smallest and pretty girls and were
crushing their faces with rocks and their fists till they
crushed the bones and some were still alive and then they
burned them, they were angry and envious of them from being
innocent, pretty and sweet, they wanted to kill it and they
were having fun in hurting us, I hated it, I wanted to go and
I couldn't I was trapped I was alive I was still alive, I was
seeing this, I was feeling it, I was hearing it, and they
were so many of them - trapped and in pain, never stopping
just being laugh at. Over and over.
The following dream also continues on in the same way. On
this occasion the dreamer had broken up with her boyfriend
the day before. They had some issues that could have been
resolved differently. She was "super upset about it".
DREAM - Spiders and open wounds. I was in this
dark public shower thing. There was men and women, and the
place was covered in spiders and spider webs. While I was
showering, I found dead spiders on my shoulders and arms
and such. I even felt one crawl across my arm. When I was
done in that shower thing, I felt a pain in my hand, it was
a spider biting into me. Of course, my first reaction was to
kill it, and I did. Then I noticed on my other arm, that
there was bite marks, but it wasn't a ordinary spider bite
mark. It was open flesh, and small parts of my skin have
been ripped off.
Always remember to try to think of the here and now. Many
dreams will depict your feelings right now and especially the
day before. This next dream had a surprising meaning.
THE DREAM I was watching a girl get raped and the
guy that was raping her just kept picking and hurting her. He
had raped her so bad and beat her so much that you really
couldn't even see her face and her body was all covered in
marks and bruises. She was crying and kept screaming at him
and hitting him and telling him to stop, but he just kept
hurting her. I remember seeing him biting her and waiting for
a reaction from her and then would just get this satisfying
look and bite her again. You could tell just by looking at
her that she was in so much pain. I remember saying at one
point why doesn't she get up and run away? There was a voice
that said back to me in response because she is in to much
pain to move. I felt very sad for her but at the same time
felt like she should have done more to get away from him. One
other thing that I remember is that it was kinda dark and
they were in very shallow water it looked like in some kind
of pipe kinda in a wooded area. I remember seeing a moon. I
remember it being dirty (there was mud and stuff).
The previous day the dreamer had been visiting her in-laws
family. The dreamer felt quite annoyed at the behaviour of her
sister in law. The dreamer has two beautiful little girls and
is extremely proud of them. Her sister in law has two little
twin boys. But the dreamer felt continually annoyed at the
behaviour of her sister in law. She seemed to constantly take
attention away from her beautiful daughters and instead
spotlight her twins. It was just little things that kept
annoying the dreamer. She noticed that whenever her children
are playing with some toys then the twin boys are always
wanting to take over and have that toy instead. Yet when its
the other way round her children are told to let the twins
have the toys. So really they were being treated differently.
The dream compares a rapist to the dreamers hurtful comments.
That may seem extreme but often dreams use big metaphors.
The main point about the rape was the satisfying look on the rapist face as he kept hurting her. That captures the essence of the situation as the dreamer was angry at her
sister in law for making subtle comments. She felt that her
sister in law was enjoying it and even had a satisfying look.
One final point about pain dreams is to always consider the
possibility that pain simply represents pain or some real
illness. In such a case its a literal metaphor. One dreamer
had a dream about pain and woke up with pain in the same
place.
But always try to spot obvious pain as a metaphor for
emotional pain. Dreams may often link to relationships which
are breaking up or to girlfriends/boyfriends who have been
treating the dreamer badly. You maybe continually arguing so
its not difficult to spot such dreams. These dreams just take
you to the types of feelings that you associate with break
ups they are full of chaos and bad feelings of all description. Think also of other things that cause upsets such as
failures, hard times, and loss of any description. Pain can
even be a symbol for depression. But just try to meditate on
the phrase "emotional pain" and think what comes to mind.
Your dream will probably link to that issue.
Research into the hundreds of dreams has shown that pain in practice captures the following types of feelings. See how these quotes have caught similar key thoughts in YOUR mind right now.
- "I realise that I will have to make a lot of sacrifices if it is to succeed"
- "I realise how much I missed out on"
- "Yesterday was quite difficult for me emotionally"
- "I do not like to see him this way"
- "I understand the pain he felt"
- "There is such a lack of real meaning to my life"
- "I have put so much effort into it that I do not want to give up now"
- "Its really difficult to accept"
- "Its something that really hurts and offends me deep down. Its a mistake"
- "Its a significant moment and I felt a real sense of loss"
- "I know that I should not push the situation as it could cause me trouble"
- "There is someone close to me whose health I have been worried about"
- "I had a hard day yesterday"
- "I have been feeling pain and its starting to worry me"
- "I was sleeping in a very uncomfortable and awkward position"
- "I woke up with feeling pain in exactly the same place as in my dream"
The following list shows dreams on this site which all featured pain or similar symbols.
Jungs house dream and the collective unconscious
Scream or help - dream analysis
Artist uses creative dreams for inspiration
Deep cut and bleeding dream
Judge and jury and blood dream
Playing with a puppy and bury ex - dream interpretation
Dream interpretation about bungalow and amoeba
Dream symbols - my husband has girlfriend who has cyst or tumor
Cancer pain - dream analysis
Good nightmares and werewolf
Children tortured dream
Nail hanging off in pain - Precognitive dream
Refitting work to be done
No anxiety underwater dream
"Death Dream comes true
Trust a man to paint house - dream analysis
Dying in a tornado.
Sea waves and sound files - dream interpretation
Huge elephant and squirrel dream
Teeth falling out - dream analysis
Scared of tornado - dream analysis
Highwayman dream interpretation
Dream symbolism - hug framed picture
Hip replacement and injection dream symbolism
Exploding buildings in Israel dream
Castle dream of Carl jung - dream symbolism
My boyfriend is cheating on me
my son crying in an asylum
Long tube dream
Pain and crying as climbing mountain dream interpretation
Dream interpretation - moving into a new flat
Spiders and open wounds dream
Death comes to kill me dream
Friend has a baby dream
Dream symbolism - raped and bitten
THE ROAD MAP - dream
Scared of tornado - dream analysis
Purple nail polish-sorry its long :/
Leeches as a collar around my neck.
Dream analysis - children enjoy rocky island and military style boat
Car crashed and smashed up - dream analysis
Slitting wrists - dream interpreting
Vampire dream
Werewolf Love Story dream
Bed - dream analysis
Blood dream
Burns - dream analysis
Cancer - dream analysis
Cold - dream analysis
Doctors - dream analysis
Little girl - dream analysis
Dream interpretation - nightmares
Dream interpretation - paintings
Sadness - dream analysis
Shout - dream analysis
Skin - dream analysis
Teeth - dream analysis
Terror - dream analysis
Tree - dream analysis
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Planes
Picture
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Pond
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