DREAM FORUM - Affair with brother in law
POSTED July 29, 2012, 04:07 by mummyyummy08 (Viewed 2116 times)

THE DREAM : SO about a year ago I put this on YA: Ok so I've known my b-in-law 5 yrs or so now. I used to feel a tad intimidated when around him in the beginning, then I grew very fond of him we got on extremely well on the occasions we saw one another and he used to say really nice things to me about how glad he was I'm with his brother etc if only is met him sooner etc. I used to feel like he was looking at me but with a particular look that was more than just a friendly glance?! And I had dreams that we got together although they were never sexual Anyway about a year passed and we only saw one another on family birthdays and that little, what ill describe as spark has gone, I put down now that the earlier "feelings" were due to his compliments nothing more. I have no physical attraction or ever have and this "fondness" has gone, I've not seen him properly for ages and had another dream we were all on a family holiday and his wife found out we were having an affair but promised not to say anything if we didn't do it again. I don't dream of any "sex scenes" although it is seeded there, excuse the pun. I love my fiance and have perfect children and the life I've wanted so why these dreams? They really get to me Someone said perhaps it's a subconscious attraction? Anyway a year's passed and we've had days out with my family and my partners brothers family - the brother in law of topic, had lovely days out, visits etc. Pleased to say no dreams! Went to a big family do yesterday and I didn't really speak to my bro in law because he was busy - he held the get together. Wasn't the best get together for me but hey you cant win them all. Went to bed last night and the dreams are back!! This time more intense. Dreamt how the "affair" started all via text message, even a place to go to hide it and my sis in law - his wife found out through reading his phone - I showed her mine and she decided it was his fault not mine. I woke up about 4.45am and tried to shake it off then fell back to sleep and dreamt we were all out at a bar. My partner was dancing with his brothers wife and I was dancing with my partners brother and he whispered to me to meet outside - I did and he started kissing me on the neck and shoulders and asked is it what I REALLY want and I answered yes but then woke up. It's doing my head in. Everything is fine with me and my partner, I'm happy in my relationship. I still have no attraction to my bro in law. We haven't had any intense conversations or got on particularly well since the last time. The "look" I spoke about previously is still there sometimes but, I'm thinking that's just his way although my mum says she has noticed it too! What the hell is wrong with me?

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