DREAM FORUM - Three Dreams, or Nightmares? (read background info first)
POSTED January 7, 2012, 11:06 by Christop116 (Viewed 146 times)
THE DREAM : The first night, it was at a friend's movie night. Brittney being a head shorter than me is standing extremely close to me, her brown eyes gazing into my own. I am trying to keep up my "vow of silence" against her, and to not give in to my attraction to her. She puts her hand on my freshly shaven face, feeling it slowly. She says, "I am genuinely sorry for calling you a stalker and ending our friendship." I am near my breaking point as she leans into me, her soft stomach mushing into my stomach. I slowly say, "Why are you doing this?" Just to be rightfully wary of her. She is still beaming, and gets on her tiptoes and kisses me on the cheek. She replies, "Because I missed you. And I like you." she hugs my body, and I finally give in and return it.
Later in the dream, while us and our friends are watching a movie, she complains how she's the only single girl there without anyone to cuddle with. Our friends start saying, "Go cuddle with Chris!" Brittney blushes, and I accept her lying down in my lap against my chest. She asks me to grab her voluptuous behind if I want. I try my hardest to resist doing so.
Now, my second dream was WEIRD. I see Brittney in the hallway at school... And she has an enormous pregnant belly that looks like the one the Octomom had, sticking out of her shirt. I remember yelling, "BRITTNEY NO YOU DIDN'T" and similar phrases in shock. And everyone believes that I'm the babydaddy... So I'm forced to be her loving husband to not look like a deadbeat dad, and so she doesn't look like a promiscuous girl without the baby's daddy. I am both horrified I have to be someone else's daddy, and yet thrilled because for the reason stated above, Brittney accepts me as her loving husband. And then the blood tests come back - I AM the father, yet I have no recollection of the conception whatsoever. I tell ya, I woke up from that dream literally yelling, "OH THANK GOD" it was Just a dream...
The third and final dream about Brittney over the three consecutive nights? I was dancing with her Beauty and the Beast style. Sigh.
THE BACKGROUND:Since freshman year, I have been close friends with Brittney, a voluptuous redheaded girl who can sing and act, but also is extremely immature sometimes, and can definetly qualify as a "b*tch" when provoked. Nevertheless, when she briefly moved away sophomore year, she took the move away from her friends hard, and I would stay up numerous nights to console her and talk her through it while she "cried in bed". And well, we started getting flirty with each other a bit. I started falling for her, and it came to a head in June when I full-out liked her.
However, we got into an argument, and eventually I blurted out that I liked her. But the thing was, we were so close to each other, and I didn't want to ruin our friendship. She was cool with it and said she didn't mind, even though she didn't reciprocate my feelings. I tried to quash my feelings over the rest of summer, but it was not to be.
Then when junior year started, I find that Brittney has blocked me from Facebook, won't text me back, and won't speak to me in person. My friend Michael finds a status on Facebook "No I didn't delete my account, you got blocked, stalker!" Which answered my last text to her asking if she deleted her account. Michael and later I confronted her over the "stalker" claims, but she wouldn't answer to me, and Michael caught her in a lie when he confronted her. So we know she's lying, but the question is, why would she do this and kill two years of friendship?
I was and am not angry at Brittney. Just sad, because I still care about her a lot, and she's lost her way. And I'm prepared to wait until she gives up her stubborn tirade. While I have stopped liking her at least once since this "war" began, I can't help but be attracted back again, even though I never speak to her. Brittney isn't the only girl I like, mind you; I like other girls, but Brittney is the strongest one. I like how sweet and loving she /can/ be, and her fiery redheaded passion for things. Plus she can sing, act, and she is quite beautiful.
One time, however, she was hopped up on pain medicine, and she was essentially high or drunk. Apparently your real personality comes out when you're "intoxicated". And Brittney was so sweet to me. "Chris I love your project! Chris you're so smart! Chris you're so cute! Chris I'm sorry for interrupting you!" so what does that suggest, if in her subconscious she is that loving and sweet to me, even though she has this hateful "stalker" tirade against me?
Longest background information EVER, right? Sorry.
Unclesirbobby (POSTED January 8, 2012, 01: 7: 29)
Thanks for posting and thanks for all the helpful background information. Dreams go right to the heart of our thinking. They represent our emotions and higher thinking. Often they are highly linked to the present as we are thinking through events and feelings as they happen. So often a dream will be a review of the previous day.
These dreams feature Britney and often dreams about girlfriends or women that we are attracted to are about that person... which makes things easier. Its not often that obvious in dreams
The dreams will represent your latest emotions and feelings at THAT TIME.
I think the dreams will represent these types of emotions.
"I am still drawn to her as she is really wonderful and beautiful"
"I do not realise why she called me a stalker. It did not make sense and we seemed to get along."
"If I had to get married to her then I am not sure how much of a good thing that would be. She is a little unstable and I am not sure how much I could cope with that"
When she dances with you beauty and the beast style ... not sure what you mean by that phrase. But maybe it shows you are willing to accept those terms and definitions... she is the beauty and you the lucky one ... everyone would be surprised
The dream is about each new perspective on the relationship... one day you fancy her ... the next she drives you crazy.. then you wonder why she calls you a stalker. We constantly try to make sense of a world that sometimes does not make sense. Dreams are in a language that we do not fully understand ... they use metaphors that seem strange... yet dreams if understood would pinpoint some key feeling... key new perspective
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