THE DREAM I was looking at porn magazines. I was then looking down upon my ex girlfriend (who I still love) and her new boyfriend. I was pouring a cup with urine and excrement down - it landed on her and I didn't care.

GUESSWORK The dreamer was very bitter and resentful towards women after a difficult break up with his ex. He saw a woman he was attracted to the night before. But now when he felt sexual feelings he did not feel love. Now he lacked any respect for women.

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ASSOCIATIONS AND SYMBOLIC MEANINGS
1. PORN: Porn can symbolise men who do not respect women. Its purely about sexual feelings and not emotions. At the time the dreamer could not feel love so any sexual feelings were tinged with a lack of respect for women and an inability to feel love.
2. EX GIRLFRIEND: The dream features the dreamers ex. Secretly he still loved her but now this love was tinged with bitterness and resentment.
3. POUR EXCREMENT AND NOT CARE: If you pour excrement and do not care if it lands on someone then this shows that you do not care about this person. Since the person was the dreamers ex girlfriend then the dream shows that he did not care about her any longer. Deep down this reveals his deep unhappiness and inability to feel love any more. He was dealing with the deep pain that was affecting him.

DREAM ANALYSIS In guesswork the dream was linked to the dreamers feelings the night before. The dream deals with the following themes
- Having sexual feelings but not feeling love or respect towards women
- Not caring about his ex

If you weave together the different themes you find that they could capture this thought that the dreamer was thinking at the time-"I am very bitter towards women. I feel resentful after my break up with my ex. I saw someone I was attracted to yesterday but my sexual feelings are now purely sexual - I do not feel love any more."