THE DREAM I had a dream that I went on a date with my ex boyfriends brother. I came back to his place and we laid on the floor with a blanket to sleep. My ex came in and eventually his brother. They both left the room. I started working on poetry and his brother came in to tell me he left the room because I wouldn't have sex with him which is why he brought me back. I asked if he was surprised and he said no he kinda knew it was going to happen. Then my ex came in and we started talking. I don't remember what was said though.

GUESSWORK The dreamer was having problems with her boyfriend and it was a problem that she wasn't wanting sex when he did.

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ASSOCIATIONS AND SYMBOLIC MEANINGS
1. The dreamer had not been in the mood for sex with her boyfriend. So that's an obvious association with reality. The dream is probably about that.
2. Dreams about ex boyfriends often represent worries that a current boyfriend is showing bad habits or behaviour which may mean that she wants to end the relationship.
DREAM ANALYSIS In guesswork the dream was linked to the dreamers thoughts about her boyfriend. The dream deals with the following themes
- her boyfriend wants sex when she doesn't
- her boyfriends annoying behaviour

If you weave together the different themes you find that they could capture these thoughts -"My boyfriend has started to really annoy me. He just seems to want sex when I don't."